I’d love to write you so much about this past year… Well, I did, but in a private letter. Because my letter is so long and I can’t wait to give it to you, I’ll keep it short and sweet on my blog. I’m so blessed to be your wife. This last year, we’ve gone through more that what most couples can handle. I’m not even talking about being pregnant and having a baby/becoming new parents. I’m talking about everything in between. I’ve had to lean on you so much. I’m lucky that I not only have you to lean on, but that you can bear the weight of the things I’ve had to lean on you for. I recently second shot a wedding and the minister said something during the service that really stood out to me. Marriage isn’t always 50/50 (or 100/100 to some people). Sometimes it’s 70/30, 90/10, or even 100/0. This past year, most of it has probably been 90/10 with some periods of 100/0; you being the 90 and me being the 10. We’ve become very resilient and navigated a lot, even in just a year (and I’m not just talking about Carly) but you’ve been there the whole time to lift me up and carry me through it all. I hope I can make it up to you someday… Well… I know I will because someday, you’ll be in the 90/10 or the 100/0 and I’ll have to be the 90 or 100 while you’re the 10 or the 0. That’s just how life goes. I love you so much and I’m glad to be spending my life with you. So, as is customary on our anniversary, we will enjoy delicious strawberries! Only this time, we’ll have Carly with us and we will be at my parent’s pool. Kind of like these strawberries… haha! I love you. Happy anniversary.